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What I Wish I’d Known About Purpose Before Turning 40

Are you living out the purpose God intended for you? Maybe you’ve spent years searching for clarity, trying to find your unique purpose as a Christian, and it seems like the answers are out of reach. This episode is for you if you feel uncertain about next steps, if wonder whether you’ve missed your chance, or simply long for reassurance that God has a plan for your life. Let this conversation be a reminder that His timing is perfect and your purpose is already unfolding in ways you may not yet see.

The Truth About Your Unique Purpose as a Christian

What does the Bible say about purpose? Quite a lot actually, including that you were uniquely created by God, that He knew you before you were born, that He gave you life in a specific time and place, and He’s given you good gifts to use for His glory. But if all of this is true, why is it so difficult to figure out your purpose? This episode uses the lens of Scripture to help you become a student of your past experiences alongside your God-given gifts so you can find your true purpose.

How God’s Love Can Turn Pain Into Purpose w/Kirsten D Samuel

Kirsten D Samuel was certain she didn’t want to share publicly about her husband’s pornography addiction and their resulting marriage crisis. She was comfortable mentoring young moms and staying in the background—until God had different plans. In this conversation, Kirsten vulnerably shares how God transformed her “no” into a powerful “yes” resulting in a ministry of hope and healing for women after marriage betrayal. This one is all about what God can do with our imperfect, even terrified, yes.

Seeing Yourself as God Sees You—A Biblical Perspective

Do you see yourself how God sees you? It’s time to break free from the lies that distort our sense of worth so we can learn to fix our identity on Christ. It’s important because big dreams built on the shaky ground of lies or confusion about who we are will soon crumble. Listen in for the tools to embrace your identity as God’s beloved and reject the temptation of finding your value and worth in performance, perfection, or the approval of others.

Listener Survey Results + Season 13 Preview

Welcome to Season 13 of The Devoted Dreamers Podcast! In this episode I’m sharing exciting changes, including monthly themes and shorter, more actionable episodes tailored to empower you and your God-shaped dream. You’ll hear insights from a listener survey that have shaped what’s new on the podcast this year and more about who is actually listening to the show. Tune in for inspiring stories, practical advice, and to find your place in our community of faith-driven perseverance.

314 || [Solo] Uncovering the Discipline You Need to Pursue a Big Dream || Merritt Onsa

How disciplined do you need to be to take on a big dream? If “a lack of discipline” is one of the reasons you’ve held off on pursuing a dream, listen in for another way to look at discipline. We’ll break down the myths about discipline and give you a fresh perspective on this often-misunderstood strength. Tune in if you’re a Christian woman looking for practical insights, biblical wisdom, and inspiration to persevere even through setbacks.

313 || [Solo] How to Feel More Capable When You’re Starting a Dream || Merritt Onsa

Have big dreams but feel uncertain how to begin? This week we are exploring a mindset shift that will help you find ease and clarity you need to take on a big dream. You’ll learn the secret to beginning something new when you feel unqualified, the power of recognizing and embracing your inherent gifts and talents, and practical steps to help you start right where you are today. My goal, by the end of this solo episode, is that you would know you already have what you need to get started.

312 || [Encore] What Will Kids Going Back to School Mean for Your God-Shaped Dream? || Merritt Onsa

How will you find balance between your dreams and your kids’ school routines? Once the flurry of back-to-school preparations is behind you, are you quietly pondering what this season holds for your personal dreams? If you’re a mom with kids still living at home, your routines (and theirs) are likely about to shift big time. In this solo episode you’ll learn about creating space for yourself first, building your support system, and overcoming fears and doubts that come with big dreams.

311 || [Solo] Unlock Your Dream: Discover the Power of Asking Better Questions || Merritt Onsa

Let’s explore how “what-if” questions about your God-shaped dream are holding you back and why reframing those questions can lead to actionable, faith-driven steps. Pop in your earbuds to learn about the power of asking better questions, the importance of walking with other dreamers and strategies for gaining clarity in the midst of uncertainty. God has given you unique gifts and dreams—now it’s time to act on them! I will help you take the first step in turning your God-inspired vision into reality.

308 || [Solo] 3 Reasons Why Community is Essential for Chasing Big Dreams || Merritt Onsa

If the obstacles between you and your dream feel overwhelming, it might be time for a game-changer: Community! In this episode, we’re diving in to exactly why I believe community is essential to our big dreams. Whether your dream is to write, speak, lead, teach, start a business, or build a ministry, this episode is packed with inspiration and tips just for you. Don’t go it alone—learn actionable strategies to find support, spark creativity, and build momentum with other women who love Jesus.


306 || [Solo] How to Discover and Develop Your Good Gifts from God || Merritt Onsa

How can you discover and develop your God-given gifts? Let’s tackle it together! In this episode we explore how to identify your unique talents, use them confidently, and understand their significant impact in the world. I’ll share actionable steps, personal anecdotes, and biblical insights to inspire you to embrace your God-shaped dream. Plus, join our supportive community calls to connect with like-minded women on the same journey. Click play and take the next step in realizing your divine purpose.

302 || [Solo] How to Persevere When You Want to Quit Your Dream || Merritt Onsa

What do you do when a dream feels too hard? Somewhere along the journey of saying “yes” to a God-shaped dream you’ll probably ask yourself why you did that. It’s daunting to attempt something you’ve never done before like writing a book, starting a business, or taking the risk of putting your creative work into the world. I wouldn’t blame you for wanting to quit, but I also don’t want you to miss out on the hope that can be found while you’re muddling through the messy middle. 

296 || [Solo] The Guaranteed Result of Sharing Your Secret Dream Out Loud || Merritt Onsa

How do you commit to a dream if you’ve felt too scared to share it out loud? In this episode for Christian women with a big dream, we explore the importance of speaking your dream out loud, even if it sounds discombobulated or feels uncomfortable, how to use your creativity to bring your dream out of hiding, and a simple challenge to help you get comfortable and find the words you want to use to talk about the dream.

295 || [Solo] Two Ingredients You Need Before Stepping into a Unique Calling || Merritt Onsa

How important are prayer and intimacy with God to our dreams? This solo episode is all about the significance of establishing a firm foundation of prayer and intimacy with God as (or before!) you step into your unique calling from Him. We explore prayer as a foundational practice that’s essential for every devoted dreamer, the importance of developing a close relationship with God, and how prayer can transform your approach to achieving your dreams.

294 || [Solo] The Truth About Pursuing a Big Dream Your Way || Merritt Onsa

How can we learn to surrender our dreams and trust God for the outcome? In this week’s solo episode, we explore the pitfalls of holding tightly to a specific vision for your dream, how to start listening for God’s voice and guidance on the journey, and embracing surrender by letting go of control and trusting God's plan. If you're ready to step boldly into God's path for your dream, hit play and join me on this empowering journey.

293 || [Solo] How to Avoid Feeling Overwhelmed by What You Don’t Know || Merritt Onsa

Is it possible to avoid overwhelm when there’s so much more to learn? This episode is about taking inventory of what you already have on hand to support your dream. I have two steps you can take and one commitment you can make that will shift your perspective on what it takes to pursue your God-shaped dream. You’ll consider the gifts God has given you, distractions you need to remove, and how to develop a discerning approach to learning and growth as you take steps in this journey.

292 || [Solo] How to Resist Your Dream Taking Over Your Life || Merritt Onsa

What does the day-to-day of your dream look like? Imagine you could see ten years into the future of your God-shaped dream. What would an “ideal day” in the life of your dream be like? How would you be spending your time? And how do you answer these questions if you have no idea what your dream is to begin with? This episode is about putting intentionality around HOW you will pursue your dream and doing so in a way that it doesn’t take over your life or your relationships.

287 || [Solo] Find Your Momentum: The 4 Phases of Chasing a Creative Dream || Merritt Onsa

What strategies can help you stay consistent in pursuing a God-shaped dream? In this episode, I share behind-the-scenes tactics I used to start and manage a podcast even though I didn’t know what I was doing, had technical barriers, limited time, and a tiny budget. We cover the ways specific, attainable goals can help tamp down the emotional rollercoaster and what to do when you’re not making any progress on a dream.

286 || [Solo] Top 3 Traps Standing in the Way of Your God-Given Purpose || Merritt Onsa

Seeking clarity and confidence for your dream? Time, money, energy, and having little kids at home top the list of reasons women put their dreams on hold. But I’ve discovered 3 traps that are an even greater threat because we don’t recognize their power. In this solo episode you’ll learn about the transformative power of community in pursuing a God-shaped dream, how to recognize and overcome common obstacles to our dreams, who the Dreamer Lab is for, and how you can join us this fall!

279 || [Solo] What Will Kids Going Back to School Mean for Your God-Shaped Dream? || Merritt Onsa

How will you find balance between your dreams and your kids’ school routines? Amidst the flurry of back-to-school preparations, are you also quietly pondering what this season holds for your personal dreams? If you’re a mom with kids still living at home, your routines (and theirs) are likely about to shift big time. In this solo episode you’ll learn about creating space for yourself first, building your support system and overcoming fears and doubts that come with big dreams.