How disciplined do you need to be to take on a big dream? If “a lack of discipline” is one of the reasons you’ve held off on pursuing a dream, listen in for another way to look at discipline. We’ll break down the myths about discipline and give you a fresh perspective on this often-misunderstood strength. Tune in if you’re a Christian woman looking for practical insights, biblical wisdom, and inspiration to persevere even through setbacks.
313 || [Solo] How to Feel More Capable When You’re Starting a Dream || Merritt Onsa
Have big dreams but feel uncertain how to begin? This week we are exploring a mindset shift that will help you find ease and clarity you need to take on a big dream. You’ll learn the secret to beginning something new when you feel unqualified, the power of recognizing and embracing your inherent gifts and talents, and practical steps to help you start right where you are today. My goal, by the end of this solo episode, is that you would know you already have what you need to get started.
312 || [Encore] What Will Kids Going Back to School Mean for Your God-Shaped Dream? || Merritt Onsa
How will you find balance between your dreams and your kids’ school routines? Once the flurry of back-to-school preparations is behind you, are you quietly pondering what this season holds for your personal dreams? If you’re a mom with kids still living at home, your routines (and theirs) are likely about to shift big time. In this solo episode you’ll learn about creating space for yourself first, building your support system, and overcoming fears and doubts that come with big dreams.
311 || [Solo] Unlock Your Dream: Discover the Power of Asking Better Questions || Merritt Onsa
Let’s explore how “what-if” questions about your God-shaped dream are holding you back and why reframing those questions can lead to actionable, faith-driven steps. Pop in your earbuds to learn about the power of asking better questions, the importance of walking with other dreamers and strategies for gaining clarity in the midst of uncertainty. God has given you unique gifts and dreams—now it’s time to act on them! I will help you take the first step in turning your God-inspired vision into reality.
308 || [Solo] 3 Reasons Why Community is Essential for Chasing Big Dreams || Merritt Onsa
If the obstacles between you and your dream feel overwhelming, it might be time for a game-changer: Community! In this episode, we’re diving in to exactly why I believe community is essential to our big dreams. Whether your dream is to write, speak, lead, teach, start a business, or build a ministry, this episode is packed with inspiration and tips just for you. Don’t go it alone—learn actionable strategies to find support, spark creativity, and build momentum with other women who love Jesus.
306 || [Solo] How to Discover and Develop Your Good Gifts from God || Merritt Onsa
How can you discover and develop your God-given gifts? Let’s tackle it together! In this episode we explore how to identify your unique talents, use them confidently, and understand their significant impact in the world. I’ll share actionable steps, personal anecdotes, and biblical insights to inspire you to embrace your God-shaped dream. Plus, join our supportive community calls to connect with like-minded women on the same journey. Click play and take the next step in realizing your divine purpose.
302 || [Solo] How to Persevere When You Want to Quit Your Dream || Merritt Onsa
What do you do when a dream feels too hard? Somewhere along the journey of saying “yes” to a God-shaped dream you’ll probably ask yourself why you did that. It’s daunting to attempt something you’ve never done before like writing a book, starting a business, or taking the risk of putting your creative work into the world. I wouldn’t blame you for wanting to quit, but I also don’t want you to miss out on the hope that can be found while you’re muddling through the messy middle.
296 || [Solo] The Guaranteed Result of Sharing Your Secret Dream Out Loud || Merritt Onsa
How do you commit to a dream if you’ve felt too scared to share it out loud? In this episode for Christian women with a big dream, we explore the importance of speaking your dream out loud, even if it sounds discombobulated or feels uncomfortable, how to use your creativity to bring your dream out of hiding, and a simple challenge to help you get comfortable and find the words you want to use to talk about the dream.
295 || [Solo] Two Ingredients You Need Before Stepping into a Unique Calling || Merritt Onsa
How important are prayer and intimacy with God to our dreams? This solo episode is all about the significance of establishing a firm foundation of prayer and intimacy with God as (or before!) you step into your unique calling from Him. We explore prayer as a foundational practice that’s essential for every devoted dreamer, the importance of developing a close relationship with God, and how prayer can transform your approach to achieving your dreams.
294 || [Solo] The Truth About Pursuing a Big Dream Your Way || Merritt Onsa
How can we learn to surrender our dreams and trust God for the outcome? In this week’s solo episode, we explore the pitfalls of holding tightly to a specific vision for your dream, how to start listening for God’s voice and guidance on the journey, and embracing surrender by letting go of control and trusting God's plan. If you're ready to step boldly into God's path for your dream, hit play and join me on this empowering journey.
293 || [Solo] How to Avoid Feeling Overwhelmed by What You Don’t Know || Merritt Onsa
Is it possible to avoid overwhelm when there’s so much more to learn? This episode is about taking inventory of what you already have on hand to support your dream. I have two steps you can take and one commitment you can make that will shift your perspective on what it takes to pursue your God-shaped dream. You’ll consider the gifts God has given you, distractions you need to remove, and how to develop a discerning approach to learning and growth as you take steps in this journey.
292 || [Solo] How to Resist Your Dream Taking Over Your Life || Merritt Onsa
What does the day-to-day of your dream look like? Imagine you could see ten years into the future of your God-shaped dream. What would an “ideal day” in the life of your dream be like? How would you be spending your time? And how do you answer these questions if you have no idea what your dream is to begin with? This episode is about putting intentionality around HOW you will pursue your dream and doing so in a way that it doesn’t take over your life or your relationships.
287 || [Solo] Find Your Momentum: The 4 Phases of Chasing a Creative Dream || Merritt Onsa
What strategies can help you stay consistent in pursuing a God-shaped dream? In this episode, I share behind-the-scenes tactics I used to start and manage a podcast even though I didn’t know what I was doing, had technical barriers, limited time, and a tiny budget. We cover the ways specific, attainable goals can help tamp down the emotional rollercoaster and what to do when you’re not making any progress on a dream.
286 || [Solo] Top 3 Traps Standing in the Way of Your God-Given Purpose || Merritt Onsa
Seeking clarity and confidence for your dream? Time, money, energy, and having little kids at home top the list of reasons women put their dreams on hold. But I’ve discovered 3 traps that are an even greater threat because we don’t recognize their power. In this solo episode you’ll learn about the transformative power of community in pursuing a God-shaped dream, how to recognize and overcome common obstacles to our dreams, who the Dreamer Lab is for, and how you can join us this fall!
279 || [Solo] What Will Kids Going Back to School Mean for Your God-Shaped Dream? || Merritt Onsa
How will you find balance between your dreams and your kids’ school routines? Amidst the flurry of back-to-school preparations, are you also quietly pondering what this season holds for your personal dreams? If you’re a mom with kids still living at home, your routines (and theirs) are likely about to shift big time. In this solo episode you’ll learn about creating space for yourself first, building your support system and overcoming fears and doubts that come with big dreams.
276 || [Recast] Find Your Purpose: 12 Steps to Uncover a God-Given Dream || Merritt Onsa
I recorded this episode because of a mistake I made in 2018. I could have kept it to myself to minimize my embarrassment, but I chose to share it. Why? Because mistakes happen, and they are one of the best ways to learn. Instead of continuing to feel foolish, I used this episode as an opportunity to share my reflections on what I’ve learned in my journey to uncovering a God-shaped dream, hoping that it will provide clarity for your path to yours.
274 || [Recast] Why It’s Time to Let Go of the Fear That You’re Not Enough || Merritt Onsa
What if you stepped into your fear of failure? Tune in this week to learn about fear of failure, what its true source really is, and how we can battle it and get moving in the pursuit of our God-shaped dreams. In this solo episode you’ll learn what our identity in Christ really means, how to shift the way you think about failing again and again, and the good news about why you can stop trying to be enough.
272 || [Solo] The Two Must-Have Truths You Need to Shut Down Imposter Syndrome || Merritt Onsa
Is there a “cure” for imposter syndrome? It’s easy to recognize the impact of imposter syndrome on a dream you haven’t had the courage to step into. The voice of imposter syndrome will suggest to you that it’s not the right time, you’re not the right person, you’re not ready to do this, or that it’s already been done. Obviously, without any intervention, thoughts like these would keep anyone stuck and their dream hidden.
267 || [Solo] Two Must-Have Ingredients I Want for Your God Dream || Merritt Onsa
Have you been searching for camaraderie and understanding from others as you pursue a God-shaped dream? In this solo episode you’ll learn why soaking up inspiration from everyone else’s dreams online isn’t serving you in the way you think it is, what to do instead of expecting friends and family members to “get” you and your excitement for a dream, and strategies to find time for your dream right now, even if you’re a busy mom, have a day job, or are caring for aging parents.
264 || [Solo] 3 Truths to Help You Make Decisions about Your Dream || Merritt Onsa
Do you keep trying to decide about an aspect of your dream, but you just can't seem to commit? Maybe the end goal feels too far out of reach so it’s difficult to define what you should do today, or there are so many directions you could go that all the possibilities are paralyzing. If decision-making stirs up fear and worry for you, this episode will help you identify your tendency to avoid decisions and give you three gifts to help you look at decision-making in a new way.